Todays events: Hearing about someone close to my life attempted suicide

So today started out like any other Monday got up went to work except it is different. One of my leadership at work Attempted suicide. He cut his arms and neck really good. He was rushed to hospital when he was found he had lost a lot of blood. they got him in surgery they thought he got his artery in his neck. luckily he did not. He was combative when they brought him in so they had to sedate him. In surgery they found he did not get his neck that bad but they were worried about blood clots so they placed a stint in him. When he woke up he could not feel his left side. he had a stroke from all the blood loss. I just started with this command so i barley knew the guy but for what i do know.

He was and is a wealth of knowledge. he is a bit abrasive when he talks to you he is still a good guy. He means well. Does the right thing for the right reasons.  He was struggling with how his wife makes him feel. I don't know her side of things honestly does not matter. They were having issues with how they were treating each other probably a mess of other issues.

If you are having deep seeded issues with your significant other you need to seriously sit down and talk about them or get help working through them with someone that can give you perspective and direction or just help you organize your thoughts. the last thing you need is bad advice like you need to lay the pimp hand down or what ever the terrible Phrase is. I know that was a mix of several. They are all terrible advice.

You can get away from your sig. other if things are that bad Temporarily that is. If your getting into a bad place you need to let your sig other know. If you are doing things that are damaging your relationship well talk about them. Get help to stop the behavior or try to ask the other to change there perspective on the behavior. If you are to hard on your sig other for perceived Damage to you go easier on them. Give them some room to breath and do wrong Relax a little. Give them some respect.

This guy will never be the same. He will have issues the rest of his life due to his choice in the darkest part of his life.