I will not reveal my true name at this time as this is more fun.
Let’s see here I started life out in Southern
California born to my mom we will name her Brita who had a boy before and after
me. So I am a middle child. My mom was deemed by the state to not be able to
adequately care for me and my younger brother. The state awarded us to our step
grandmother we will name her Greta. My bro was taken first at 18 months then me
at age 3. We are 13 months apart in age. Let’s call my younger brother Crick
and my older Arthur. It was Arthur, 18 months later, me, 13 months later,
Crick. Great start to life huh I mean I am whole and not much to complain about
could be much worse I suppose.
I was a very active child getting into the normal kinds of
trouble I suppose. Normal relationship with younger brother barley know my
older. Broke my arm playing on roller skates inside. We Crick and I got
adopted by Greta about age 12. Big court hearing and everything our parents did
not want to give up parental rights even though we did not see them but once a
year. Got to spend a lot of time with older bro which was great. Greta at that
time we were put in her care had 2 children left in the house. They were much
older than us. Like 8 years older. They were my maternal grandfather’s kids
with Greta. She was raising us on her own.[childhood blog]
I finished high school and sat around for too long doing
nothing around the September 11th 2001 time frame. Got to watch that on the
news. I decided to be an aviation mechanic. So I went to school for that. Graduated
and moved out of the house, I moved in with Arthur who had been in the Navy for
a while at this point in our lives. I tried to find a job, which was not going
so well. The school I graduated from wanted me to come back and work for them
for a while as an instructor’s assistant. I did that for like 6 months. Then
found a job. Got out on my own for a while then moved in with Greta again.
Fun!!! Rolling my eyes. Did that for a while then found a girl to um be in love with
moved in with her Family to Tenn. Like a month into this had an ok relationship then thrown to the side, so I was stuck where I was for a while being a room mate without the Love aspect Kind of a bad choice from the start. That did not work out so well did not have a real
job. I Got by loading trucks for UPS moved out of that place after like 5 months of
hell. Back to Arthur’s place 2 years after first time. This time he is married
to who he is married to now at the writing of this page. I got by loading
trucks again. I was signed up to join military namely the NAVY in august 06 I signed up and entered into the delayed entry program DEP.
March 2007 off to boot camp. It was great times I got very sick there that
kind of sucked the life out of me. I managed to get through it by seer
willpower and grit. It took me 2 weeks after boot camp to get well. Went to
training for my rate lets nuclear machinist mate. Went to school for like 1
year to learn my job. Then 6 months to prototype where we learn how to operate
the steam plant and support systems for the reactor.
I went to a carrier for like 7 years now I am on shore duty carrying our
maintenance on one of the prototype sites the navy has, due to do that for a
while.
In 2008 I got married to let’s call her Two (short for Two timing grrrr)
things went ok for a while then kind of fell apart not really sure they were
ever together in first place. A couple of deployments and a couple of her boyfriends
later, in the end of 2012 started divorce papers [marriage and divorce name of
a follow up blog].
The cheating grrrr. Two and I had good times and bad time but I thought we
had started to put things together.
Now onto the up and up.
Divorced Two and got over the hurt and the loss. Then decided it was time to
move on. So there was not a lot of LDS woman my age around Norfolk VA. I tried
my hand at the online dating scene. So I was on there for like 6 months no results
except a great group of people to chat with in a chat room every night. For
hours and hours. One day I was like what am I doing with my life I was ready to
quit I gave it a date I was going to not renew. So one day this new girl gets
on I am instantly drawn to her. This is her first time on the chat room she
just noticed it. So I was my normal fun self-make the new people feel welcome.
Long story short I marry her. [Meeting my love new blog name for more detail]
We shall call her Sue short for Surprise. Well she has 4 kids she was
divorced about same time I was. And we decided to get married after 6 months of
seeing each other (crazy Idea Right!!!) she was living in CO at this time. The
children do not have permission to be moved out of state so we had to wait that
court hearing to happen He was fighting this the whole time. Sue's Ex finally
gave in and gave permission. So 7 months into our marriage move the kids and
Sue in with me near Norfolk VA. Small house purchased when with Two, somehow
kept that. Two left without a fight and left the Dept to me. Anyway 3 bedroom
1200 sq. ft. house is small with 2 teens a pre-teen and a young 8 year old.
I came up for new orders in September 2015 and had to move again. [moving]
We got on a waiting list for Government housing up here in New England area. We were
last in a list of 4 or 5. No way we would have it in time so we had to come up
with a plan we found a house to rent for way more than we could afford at the
time.
So here we are today. Sue and I and 4 kids. They will get named someplace
else.
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